After that, it is time to consider making some alterations. Even if you cannot modify how firmly they clasp, things like spreader bars and nipple clamps (which Ann Summers always runs out of on Valentine's Day) are not necessarily made for misery. After then, there is the matter of donning the BDSM garb. Time and an open schedule are required for each project, whether it is merely underwear or a full-fledged outfit. However, if the process of obtaining, setting up, and dressing up for kinky sex is included in the ritual, the prep may become its reward.